Law of attractioN

I have watched this film entitled ‘The secret’ and alot of realizations and approvals have sunk into my mind on how does the secret really works in our daily lives and how we, ourselves could make it work, ,

The Power behind "the Secret". The Law of Attraction is an important part in the Secret of

Success, inasmuch as it tends to bring to us the things, persons and circumstances in

accordance with our earnest Desire, Demand, and Will, just as it brings together the atoms

and other particles of matter. 

Make yourself an atom of Living Desire and you will attract

to yourself the person, things and circumstances fitting in with the accomplishment of your

Desire. 

You will also get into rapport with those who are working along the same lines of

thought, and will be attracted to them and they to you, and you will be brought into

relations with persons, things and environments likely to work out the problem of your

Desires – you will get “next to” the right persons and things - all by the operation of this

great natural Law of Attraction. 

No Necromancy or Magic about it at all – nothing

supernatural or mysterious – just the operations of a great Natural Law.

How we secure what we Persistently Desire?

The fact that you have failed to get the lesser proves conclusively that you deserve the

greater. So therefore, dry those tears and go in search of the worthier prize. 

Count nothing lost; even the day that sees (“no worthy action done”) may be a day of preparation and

accumulation that will add greatly to the achievements of tomorrow. 

Many a day was made

famous because nothing was done the day before. Know what you want and continue to want it. 

I assure you,, you will get it if you combine desire with faith. The power of desire when combined with

faith becomes invincible. This invincibility is the Law of Attraction. Some of the principal

reasons why so many fail to get what they want is because they do not definitely know what

they want or because they change their wants almost every day.

We should all know that the motive of the law of attraction is DESIRE, , ,

The purpose of desire is to inform man what he needs at every particular moment to supply

the demands of change and growth in his life; and in promoting that purpose, desire gives

expression to its two leading functions. The first of these is to give the forces of the

human system something definite to do, and the second is to arouse those forces or faculties

that have the natural power to do what is to be done.

In exercising its first function,

desire not only promotes concentration of action among the forces in man, but also causes

those forces to work for the thing that is wanted. Therefore, it is readily understood why

the wish, if strong, positive, determined and continuous, will tend to produce the thing

wished for.

If you can cause all the elements and powers in your being to work for the one thing that

you want you are almost certain to get it. In fact, you will get it unless it is so large

that it is beyond you, or beyond the power of your present capacity to produce; though in

that case you have exercised poor judgment; you have permitted yourself to desire what lies

outside of your sphere; 

and what you could neither appreciate nor use were you to get it. 

What you can appreciate, enjoy and use in your present sphere of existence, you have the

power, in your present state of development, to produce; that is, you can produce it if all

your power is applied in your effort to produce it; and when you desire any particular thing

with the full force and capacity of your desire you cause all your power to be applied in

producing that particular thing.

In exercising its second function, desire proceeds directly into that faculty or group of

forces that can, if fully applied, produce the very thing that is desired.

In its first function it tends to bring all the forces of the system together, and inspires

them with the desire to work for what is wanted. It acts upon the system in general and

gives everything in the system something definite to do, that something definite in each

case being the one thing desired. In its second function it acts upon certain parts of the

system in particular; always upon those parts that can do what is wanted done; and it tends

to arouse all the life and power that those particular parts may contain. 

Hope you got something, as much as I got this real something, , ,

When do you knoe A relaTionsHip haS a FutUre

In many instances, we
all are "gun shy" after a short-or long- term relationship, because
being hurt or feeling bad is not an option.

This stinging feeling tends to guide us as we clamor for something new
or fresh. It’s as if the bricks and mortar are suddenly out and there is a new fortress built conveniently around your heart.

So
when we do meet someone new, how do we know when a bright future is on
the horizon? Furthermore, if we think we have it, how do we really
know?

The heart can be deceptive and initially in a
relationship, it can be very lustful swaying the mind to a sort of
natural high. This period is just that, a period that both people go
through that intentionally attempts to highlight your positives and
suppress your negatives towards the perspective mate.

We all
want to put our best foot forward in any given situation whether it’s
landing a special mate or a good job. However, when your worst foot
inevitably takes place of your best one is when the real test
commences.

In order to properly judge another, one must be able to accept judging
themselves!

None of us are perfect and everyone has flaws, but to what degree can
we accept them not only in others, but ourselves?

If
we all received a piece of paper with a large T on it, and on either
side it listed the pros and cons as the average person would perceive
positives and negatives, we would most certainly have a "leg up" in the
filtering mode.

Most everyone filters through specific traits
and qualities when dating anyone to gauge compatibility and get a
better handle on their odds. So when your filter gets clogged up after
a certain amount of time with their "personal luggage" as most call it,
then it’s time to move on, right?

Well, that depends on you obviously….

These
negative aspects usually are not revealed until some type of commitment
has been agreed upon by both people. Then, the facade and veneer of
"look, I have so many positives and I’m so fun and cool to be around",
evaporates and real life sets in.

It’s a deal; or it’s deal breaker time…..

When all the chips have fallen and the proverbial probationary period
of
lustful highs comes to an screeching end; a couple is left with what
they should have came into the relationship with in the first
place………themselves!

An assessment of sorts or a comprehensive evaluation is undertaken in
some segregated part of your mind and the conversation is as follows:

"Is
this man or woman worth my time? Are we going to make each other better
for being with each other, or does he or she make me feel
something I have never felt before?" If it’s not the exact internal questions, they certainly are not far off.

If our intentions are truly built on a "good hearted foundation" then
not hiding the truth about ourselves when meeting others is a simple
task. We can love who we are inside and then proceed to market that
love so someone else can enjoy it.

However, we hide and not reveal what we know are our negatives without working internally on them before proceeding into another
relationship, where we can inject them all over again. If we ironed
out our problems before delving full fledged into another committed
relationship, then we wouldn’t have to "put our best foot forward
because we would have both feet already firmly on the ground."

It all starts with you and taking personal accountability for your own
heart and what you truly seek in a perspective mate.

False impressions of all positives about yourself put a dishonest spin
into a relationship from the get go and point it for a tenuous at
best, future.

When you get to know yourself inside and out and what you truly want
from a relationship is when you will know if a relationship has a
future or not.

Work on eliminating your negative personality traits before ever
pursuing a committed relationship. Then attempt to efficiently read
your perspective mate’s honest intentions before you invest too much
time. If done correctly, you will have increased your odds
exponentially for a long term relationship and stacked them
confidently in your favor.

Does Love really exist?

There came a time in my life where I answer "NO" to this question. It’s because I thought it only exist in movies, novels and in our mind. I believe it won’t last a lifetime.

Maybe it’s because of what I see around us nowadays, like war, misunderstandings and hearing how my friends cry because of their broken relationships. But I realize, it doesn’t mean love is really gone, for it comes from oneself. It is always there inside us waiting for its chance and time to grow so we can share it with other people like our family and friends. ‘Coz admit it or not, when we heard the word LOVE- it only pertains to a one special person. But don’t you think it’s kinda selfish?
But I guess that’s a usual reaction for we define love in many different ways, like… love is kind, love is blind …..
, love is pure…blah! blah! blah! But hey! It only comes up to three words, and its trust, care and acceptance.

…….

What to do?Life’s big question

We’ve all experienced the same thing at important crossroads in our life when big changes were underway. Often, we find ourselves feeling panic and frozen in time, possibly with indecision, waiting and wondering: Which way to go?; How will things turn out? Sometimes, you just don’t know what to do.
I’m asked frequently about this topic and oddly, I have a lot of experience with it as well. In fact, I find my life in this state of flux often as more changes loom on the horizon. Everyone, myself included, wants answers. What should I do? How do I know? These answers are never forthcoming; we cannot see into the future. Every direction can be okay; one can be the best. The simple truth is, we just don’t know with 100% accuracy. This is where awareness and faith come in to play.
Awareness is important on many levels. Knowing the landscape of your life, you can make calculated decisions that support your goals. In business, and daily life activities, we implement this process automatically without much awareness at all, it has become so habitual. This, in part, is where a problem lies. Habitual behavior may not be appropriate as new data becomes available. Auto-pilot means your flying blind. Even when flying a plane on auto-pilot, the pilot will check the instrument panels to ensure the data is consistent. Why don’t we? Be aware of your data.
Your data comes from many sources and most of us are familiar with these sources. I might surprise some of you with new concepts. The common source that we’re all familiar with is the mind and store-house of knowledge and experience we have gained from life. Again, those who rely solely upon this source risk repeating the same mistakes over and over again. The mystery of life dictates that our ability to identify with life experience as truth results in creating more of this truth in our lives. If this truth is a truth of painful experience, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Utilizing other sources, we are able to objectively assess all sources and come to new conclusions.
The next common source is our emotions and intuition; they often are synonomous. A surprising fact here is that not everyone is in touch with their emotions or permit the emotions the freedom they deserve. Emotions are very useful in interpreting and/or being aware of underlying factors that may not be evident through hard tangible data. For some this is a gut-feeling, others have a flash of insight or conclusion, and others feel twinges in certain parts of the body without being aware of any potential significance. I have scenarios for each and will refrain from elaborating further for the sake of brevity today. Be curious to explore it further though.
A less common source for most is our spiritual awareness. This is a quiet place within that has a higher level of wisdom for the greater good. This can be pertinent to you, your life, your family life, community, work, the world, and so on. The levels of knowledge accessible here are limitless. It is as though we are connected to a universal storehouse of knowledge. This place of knowing is far less judgemental and emotional but has the ability to synthesize the data from the mind and emotions, integrating and offering solutions from a much higher level of consciousness. This is something that many people find themselves seeking as they mature and look for more significance in their lives and meaning in their work.
Creation exists, as do we. We see it all around us. Scientists study deeper into the stars. More scientists study deeper into the mysterys of time and space; quantum physics. What is witnessed is creation, its’ magic and its’ mystery. Down at the quantum level we discover that we’re mostly made up of empty space and other unusual phenomena that cannot be explained. Out in the stars, they see an expanding universe. Now, going deeper, with probing satellites and quantum sciences, new theories arise. All seem to point to an apex of creation coming from nothing… a God Force.
Mystery is lived by people accessing this God-Force, understanding their co-creative relationship to this mystery. Understanding that this force is abundant love, it supplies us with what is in our intention. What we intend for our lives becomes real. Many people who do this consistently refer to it as manifesting. As children, many of us have had at least one solid experience of this. We may have just known that we would have something in our lives, whether a gift, an experience, a trip, whatever, and then it happens. There was no fear, doubt, uncertainty, only gladness for what was to come. That is the power of intent.
As adults, so much of our lives have instructed us to ignore so much. Don’t dream to big. You can’t do this. Don’t do that. That’s only for the privileged. You need to have a degree. There is too much competition. This is the way things work. Everywhere you turn, you are told how it is and what cannot be and you become conditioned. We have spent too little time in practice with our spiritual origins that we do not understand this mystery and in our need for control, we stifle its’ requirement for room to breathe and work its’ own magic. We measure things by worldly standards and time clocks, not realizing that in the bigger picture, some of those so-called failures actually were important stepping-stones in a grander scheme for our lives. Is our spiritual side still influencing the outcome? Are we making the experience harder, longer, or are we co-operating and making it easier?

Journal of gratitude

Today I am grateful for ___________________ .

 

As I write the above line, I wonder, "What is my answer?" My first thought is, "I am grateful for today." Then I realize there are so many people, places and things for which I am grateful. Everyday the list grows.
Everyday there are things that happen to us, and for us, that make us grateful. Sometimes, we even find, that after the passage of time, we become grateful. Take time today, tomorrow, and the next day to think about for what or whom you are grateful. Then write it down in your gratitude journal. Or maybe send a letter or a card, with dates and experiences to that person. Share you happiness and your gratitude. 
As I was thinking about what I am grateful for, of course I tried to see the things around me. These are what I’ve got…
Today I am thankful for a generous heart that loves to spill over to others…and is constantly replenished by my beautiful family."
"Today I am grateful that I can continually forgive myself. I can forgive myself for judging myself harshly when things don’t turn out just the way I was attached to them turning out. I can forgive myself when I am disappointed that I didn’t speak up and say exactly how I felt about a situation. I can forgive myself because when I did speak up, it didn’t come out of my mouth the way my mind thought it would. All in all, I am very grateful that I am me. I wouldn’t want to be anyone else in the whole world….and that’s gratitude!"
"I am grateful for days, like today, when my gratitude gallops gleefully ahead of me and I have to skip to keep up with it, instead of haul it behind me like a wagon load of manure, hoping it will carry its own weight - by tomorrow."
I am very grateful for the healing work that I do. I work long, hard hours, but I really enjoy helping people feel better. How many people can say that they love their work or feel that they are doing exactly what they are supposed to be doing?"
"Today I am grateful for gentle friends, and a loving Heavenly Father." "Today I am grateful for all the wonderful people in my life who challenge me to think differently."

"I am grateful for the Divine Connections in my life - My family and friends. We laugh and cry together. With them I feel I belong and am loved. They are my greatest teachers. We validate each other. When depleted I seek them out. They renew my spirit I am blessed. I am also grateful for the roadblocks and failures in my life. They turned out to be valuable lessons that led me to new opportunities and connections I wouldn’t have had otherwise. They presented new Lifepaths."

Today, I am grateful for my life, health, and for my mother still being alive."
"I am grateful for being able to carry the message that Light and Love is always present and everlasting. I get to do this on a moment to moment daily basis. I am grateful for all the loving people that I am blessed with in my life. I am grateful that the universe provides completely and abundantly. I am grateful to be alive and living full out."
Can’t you just smell all the happiness exuding from these messages? That’s’ what happens when we express our gratitude. We discover our happiness. Now you too can express your gratitude. The best time to start is now..